Saturday, 18 August 2018

If you are 18 or more you should know this

If you are 18 you should know this..


There is a lot of excitement and fun in the teen age. We all had or you must be having. And, why not? You should be enjoying and moving with the flow where life takes you.

But, when you reach or cross 18 you should know this thing which I'll share right now and here only.

It is not to make you feel discouraged or low but to make you aware about the things which you should keep in mind while constructing your future. 

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Please, please, please! I beg you to get this thing into your head that there is "No one."

No one at all anytime and anywhere for you. You are alone! You are independent! You are one and the only miracle happened to this world.

No one will be taking your responsibility. No one. Not even your close ones. I mean not even your own parents.

Parents will be there but your issues  are to be resolved by you only. Your parents will not be there, your close ones will not be there nor your trusted ones will be there.

You need to be your back-up, power-up and lift-up.

At this age, parents are there with you just to be with you. You must have listened to people saying that their parents are their strength but actually the game is not likely by their side because parents are just with you to be with you.

Your parents are not your strength but you are your strength, your motivation and your inspiration! No one takes your responsibility except you.

 No one can guide you until you guide yourself.

If someone even guides you, it is not the guidance until you accept it and feed it into your brain. 
Similarly, none of the advice of your parents or close ones will matter until you accept it.

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You accept the guidance by taking the responsibility of the thoughts that you choose to carry along with you in your mind in near future.

You need to accept it that "you are alone." And, it depends on you to make the choice that, whether you want to accept this thing right know or delay it till the future.

No one will ever come to tell you to catch hold of the nib of the clock. You need to know- How to make time work for you


By this age you should know that where you want to lead yourself and make your steps move in that direction. No matter what life brings in between you and your goals, you should enjoy each and every moment. 

You should have the knowledge to keep your mind calm- 4 trigger tactics to keep your mind calm , and to keep your brain healthy- Want to keep brain healthy?

This only to make you fully aware of the things that you will definitely need in future, but:



                     No one means no one! 


Learn to enjoy your company. Learn to make yourself happy. Because no one will come to make you happy.

If you are not happy, you can't give happiness to others. People should come to you seeking for happiness. It should not be like this that you are going to people seeking for happiness. The game should be reversed, if such thing is happening in your life.

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You get to live only ones. And, likely you need to take responsibility for yourself only ones while other things doesn't matter.

You got my point?

There will be no one to tell you to get up and exercise. There will be no one to tell you to take risk and learn from failure. You should know The power of "failure!". There will be no one to come and tell you to spend your time with family instead of cellphones. And, there will be no one to come and tell you to read books instead of watching T.V.



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I hope you understood to take your own responsibility because no one will come for you ever.



"No one is coming to save you. This life of yours is 100% your responsibility."



If you want to share your views please share it with me in the comment box or you can even mail me at emperorbuildup@gmail.com

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But before leaving tell me;

What do you think about taking your  responsibility? Is now the right time?



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If you are 18 or more you should know this

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